Get Unstuck & Awaken Your Purpose
You know there has to be more to life. Life isn’t supposed to feel mediocre. Maybe you feel alright where you currently are in life, but know it can’t be your forever. Deep down you know you were made for more. You have a passion that burns bight inside of you just waiting to take that huge leap of faith. However, you feel stuck, unsure of the next step, lacking clarity and overwhelmed with trying to figure it all out.
Does that sound familiar?
You have an idea of what you want, a lengthy day dream, maybe a wild vision. Stuck in the inbetween. In the middle of wanting more and going after what you want. Feeling tied down as you decide on which direction to take. Completely brain fogged with other peoples opinions, fear, procrastination and drowning in social media imposter syndrome.
Questioning; why can’t I make it happen, why can’t I figure it out, when does the switch flip to make it happen?
Ready for it….
Here’s the absolute truth you’ve been searching for
It’s not about becoming more, nor following the ultimate 6 figure power strategy
It’s 100% about deconditioning back to you, your most true self.
There is nothing to figure out or uncover.
It has everything to do with awakening your purpose by showing up unapologetically yourself. The freakin powerhouse you were born into this world to be.
The you that is untethered by society, un-persuaded by others opinions, washed clean of the external influences. Fully owning your power, your quirks, your unique.
So first let’s dive into getting unstuck
Actually I want you to completely remove that word “stuck” from your vocabulary. The stickiness of stuck is only a mental roadblock you subconsciously created. Once you claimed it, there you sat reliving the same pattern in a cyclic rhythm.
So today is the day you remove the word, toss it out. It no longer serves you and you most definitely can’t take it where you want to go. To stop the recurring pattern a drastic change has to happen. That change is saying, ”I’m no longer stuck, I’m moving forward every day.”
Say it, believe it, live it
Own your truth
You know what you want, but 1 of 4 things is true:
You’re afraid to ask for more
Hustle mode needs to be taken down a few notches
Alignment is out of whack
Fear and the attachment to the, ”what if’s”
Are you afraid to ask for more?
When someone asks you what you want, what’s your answer. Probably pretty generic, written textbook style. After you answer the question what else is your body telling you. If you were continued to be questioned to dive deeper into the what and why of it all, what would it be. Think of corn on the cob, the husk has many layers to be peeled away until you get to the sweet corn.
Pause, stop the scroll and take a deep breath.
Ask yourself:
“What do I want?”
“Where am I not asking for more?”
“What’s holding me back from not asking for more?”
Journal it out
Sadly, we hold back from not asking for more due to feeling unworthy and hiding behind our greatest strengths.
You must tune within yourself to own both your truth and worth. You’re worthy of every possible thing you can think of. We are all born worthy and your DNA is wired for that. Unfortunately, somewhere along your journey someone told you that you weren’t and sadly you believed it. When you believed it...it seeped into your being like a hovering smog that continues to keep you from what you truly desire.
What’s beautiful though is that worthiness comes from within. It is still there waiting for you to uncover it and claim it for good. Like dirty laundry piled up after a week long vacation, your self worth became covered by layers of the external worlds opinions and judgments. But clothes can be picked up, washed and made new again. Just like you, your self worth and your desire for more.
There was a time I too felt unworthy. After my husband blindsided me by saying he no longer loved me and left me for another girl. I felt my worth go with him as it all came crashing down on the floor in front of me.
My best advice for you is to do the inner work. To slow down, shut out the world, shut out the tiny voice in your head that whispers nonsense. Write out your truths and remember who the f^@& you are. This is how you awaken your purpose, when you return to the original blueprint of you. Keep reading as I dive into this more.
Hustle mode needs to end
How is being busy serving you?
What are you gaining from hustle mode?
Let me take a stab at it….it isn’t serving your highest self. It is leaving you burnt out, overwhelmed, unfocused and lacking the energy you crave to be in.
Am I right?
I’m going to keep this simple >>
X drop the to do list
X quit saying yes to everything for everybody
X remove stuff from your plate and ask for help
X schedule you time
X meditate to let the external world fade away
My favorite affirmations to slow your roll
I give myself permission to slow down and rest
I am allowed to say no
I am take for what fills me up
I choose to live in the present moment
I am open to the magic in this moment
I trust the process, life is not a race
Fear and attaching to the “what if’s”
We are built with fear for the sake of surviving. However, fear has crept its way into places it does not serve. You see a bear while hiking, fear sets in to alert your body for fight or flight mode. Yes, thankful for fear then, that’s what it is designed for. You hop online to share your business and sellout a new program, fear sets in...except this time it’s false, a lie. This is when you lean in and listen to the why behind it.
When the body is out of alignment and the hustle mode is strong, fear can be mistaken as a negative feeling. Feelings of fear should be leaned into and listened to. Used as a guide and not a roadblock. How can you rewire it to serve you better instead?
Where are you attaching to what if? What if I fail, what if no one joins my program, what if I can’t keep up with it all. You are allowing yourself to fall victim to this. Like raising the white flag to surrender, thus allowing it to happen. To fall victim to something outside of yourself, when in actuality, you have complete control of your internal world.
Listen closely...
Cut the ties. You can what if your life forever and what you will get is exactly what you “if’ed” for. What you think and believe is what manifests in your life. So rewrite your story. Swap your what ifs for something else. Something positive, something more. Think big.
Tying it all together, the fear, hustle mode mentality and attaching to what if’s...are you fully aligned with you?
Many of us have learned who the world wants us to be. Both consciously and unconsciously, the world molded us into it’s own form. This is not who we were truly meant to be. This misalignment within keeps us from growth thus feeding the emotions of feeling “stuck”.
If you truly want to awaken your purpose, if you are over settling and ready for more, the magic is coming back home to yourself. Deconditioning from the world and becoming aligned with your true self. The you-est of you.
Awaken your purpose
Now is the time to awaken your purpose. It isn’t something you have to search for or dig up and find. It’s already inside of you, lying dormant waiting for you to wake up to it and grab it with a hell yes.
It shines through when you surrender to who you fully are. Owning every bit of your design, every ounce of your pureness. The untouched, untamed and unleashed you.
When you sit down in silence, you the know what the answers are. Now it’s time to turn those answers into action through aligned strategy. When you awaken your purpose you don’t have to see the whole picture, just keep stepping forward. Keep questioning and let yourself answer and follow that path, one step at a time.
You are the only one to carry out your purpose and have been equipped with all you need to do so. Quit hiding behind every excuse, quit playing small due to fear and anxiety. You can choose to lean into the fear and make your wildest dreams come through or you can play victim and sit on the sidelines of your own life. What are you choosing? The choice is yours. However, my heart hopes you choose more, because I see the passion burning bright inside of you. I hear your soul craving more. I know you have everything it takes to get it all and more.
Expand your vision, awaken your purpose and fully live as your best CEO self... finally making your wildest dreams come true!
You need to believe it
You need to ask for me
You need to allow space for more
You need to awaken to your own superpowers
Say it out loud,” I attract all I desire.”
Always can
Always will
